As a cultural anthropologist, I have come to know a
lot of people from many different cultural groups and I have NEVER had someone
willingly come up and show me their underwear. I have never asked anyone
to, but I cannot imagine that I would be happily invited into their bedroom and
shown everything from their comfy, down-days underwear to their lingerie. “Why
are they so secretive about their underwear?” you may ask. Well, it is for much
of the same reason that Mormons (members of the Church of Jesus Christ of
Latter-day Saints) are so secretive about their underwear.
It’s underwear! Underwear by nature, regardless of external appearance,
is private.
Besides that, our temple garments are very symbolic
and sacred to us as Latter-day Saints. When we go to the temple we make
covenants/ promises to God and these items of clothing are constant reminders
of our commitment to our promises. Because these promises we make to God
involve sexual purity, our garments cover the private parts of our
bodies. We wear them every day under everything we wear (except swim suits
because that would be bizarre!) as a constant reminder of the promises we have
made to God. This is similar to how married couples wear wedding bands to
remind themselves of the promises that they have made to each other regarding
fidelity and lasting love. (Most women do not wear their diamond rings
when scrubbing the toilet because the cleaners can damage their ring.
Mormons do not wear their garments to the pool because it would a) look
ridiculous and b) put unnecessary wear on our garments.)
Since our promises are made to God, we do not
need the world to be able to tell by looking at us, that we are wearing
garments. God knows when we are wearing them and keeping our promises. With
covenants, they are two sided. When we promise to keep our promises to God, he
promises to protect us. When we wear our garments, we are protected. They
are not ‘magic Mormon underwear’. They are symbols of our commitments to God
and His promise to protect us. They are made of various materials from
cotton to silk just like any other clothing.
An example to illustrate this came to mind. A crucifix
necklace, whether gold, silver or nickel, is a metal pendant. Some people wear
crosses to remind them of Jesus Christ and help them to live righteously. If
someone promises God that they will always wear the cross to think of Christ
and in return ask God for protection, I believe that God will honor that. Say
someone tries to shoot them and miraculously the bullet hits this necklace
instead and their life is spared. It is not because the necklace is magic- it’s
because God keeps His promises.
As a final thought on this, no one makes anyone wear
garments. If they decide they do not want to keep the promises they made to
God, they do not have to wear them and they can pursue whatever lifestyle they
want to. That means that God does not need to hold up His end of the
bargain. While a couple is married they wear wedding rings but if things go
wrong, they break marital promises or decide they do not want to be married
anymore, they take off their ring.
In summary- personal underwear by nature is private
and not publically displayed; this is not unique to the Mormon culture.
Garments are not ‘magic Mormon underwear’; they symbolize promises and when
promises to God are kept, He can do miraculous things. Finally, no one forces
anyone else to wear garments. It is between the individual and God.
Here
are some more comments based on some questions I received concerning my
previous post. Garments are usually two piece. Everyone I know wears two
piece. It is possible to get one piece but those would be very uncomfortable
and hot and inconvenient. They are basically all shaped the same way
regardless of age. They do make maternity ones for the pregnant shape.
:) They are short sleeved (the women’s are very short sleeved as you can
see by my pictures that they are not visible under my t shirts. ) Men’s
are also short sleeved like a standard men’s t-shirt. They are very sheer
so that they are breathable and not too hot. The variance in styles is in
the necklace such as V neck or scoop neck. Plunging neckline is not an option
because modesty is important. Undergarment bottoms vary slightly in
length but generally they are Bermuda short length; about to the
knee. ie- Bermuda shorts are great, capris are great, long pants
are great, daisy dukes/ short shorts are not as great. :)
My
friend Jessica Constantine wanted me to share this thought that she had
concerning the style of garments.
"
Although this isn't the express purpose of garments, I feel like the unchanging
length of the garment acts as a template and standard for modest dress. We are
counseled a lot as youth to dress modestly because of the incredible protection
it is to our physical bodies as well as our spirits. The temple garment helps
us to keep our hemlines in check, and as one of many personal benefits temple
garments offer the wearer, they also keep us focused on our deep beauty not
just skin beauty. (Although men don't seem to have as much of an issue with
modesty in dress or self worth issues that come with dress, it equally applies
to them as well). "
I
do not know how many Mormons wear garments statistically but I know it is a
lot. If they were married in the temple or served a mission or they are
devout Mormons and they go to the temple, you can bet they wear them. I
would guess that most Mormons over the age of 20 wear them. You
might not guess that because they are not noticeable and we don’t talk about
them. With regards to the word of wisdom; Certainly there are in any
religion those who pick and choose things they want to believe and things they
do not want to believe and adhere to.
Here
are some pictures of Mormons wearing garments.
*The little Buzz and the
young Soldier are not wearing garments because they are children and have not
been to the temple. You begin wearing garments when you go through the
temple formally as you make additional promises to God. This happens
before you serve a mission, before you get married in the temple, or when you
have passed age 19 or so and you would like to go to the temple.
"But
these are normal people wearing normal clothes!" you might say. Yes,
that's because the garments are underclothing and as such they are underneath
their clothing. As you see, you can wear most anything you want over your
garments. I do not feel like my wardrobe is limited. It helps encourage me to
dress modestly.
Regarding
the history of the garment, we believe that garments were used in the
church when Abraham was a prophet and when Adam was on the earth. Certainly the
styles of garments have changed as cultures and dress have changed but the
concept God instituted for his church has remained the same. When Joseph
Smith restored the church of Jesus Christ, the garment was re-instituted as a
symbol of temple covenants.
I do
not think that they are blessed. In our church we do not so much bless things.
We bless people and we believe that we are blessed as we keep our covenants
with God.
My
dad also has some comments that he wanted me to add in here. :)
I
enjoyed reading your thoughts. I would want to emphasize that the protection
would be viewed primarily as a spiritual protection. Ephesians 6:11-18 would be
a good example of this. The garments help us to spiritually put on the whole
amour of god by helping us remember who we are and our relationship with him
and the specific covenants we have made with him. For me the symbolism of
the garment is in almost every way I can imagine symbolic of the atonement.
As we repent we are then
“covered” by and through the atonement. Even the word “atonement” in Hebrew is
“kafar” which means “to cover”, which in our case is literal. So when I think
of the garment, I think “Atonement” and what the Savior has done for me.
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